Wednesday, November 6, 2019

Dia de Independencia y despues

Hola!

After abandoning my blogging duties for the past month, I just now realized I never took a minute to write about the Chilean Dia de Independencia! I guess I’ve been slightly preoccupied applying to colleges and all…

Independence day was not what I expected it to be in the slightest. First off, independence “day” should actually be called independence week. The eating of the sopapillas, asado, and empanadas actually began two days before the 18th of September during a school celebration. Similar to the anniversary week, I went to school to participate in activities pertaining to independence day (so basically eating, egg toss, bean bag jump, etc.) for Monday and Tuesday, then for Wednesday-Friday, school was closed.

To be completely honest, I forget what happened on Monday. But on Tuesday, parents of one of my compañeras roasted all sorts of meats for my course. It was kind of like a barbeque: we listened to music, talked, and ate for the entire day. This was almost like a practice, or a stomach-expansion preparation for what was to come.

On Tuesday night, I went to a surprise birthday party for one of my compañeras. Although it started and ended earlier than the other parties, there was still a ton of dancing. At 12:00 am, or the start of the 18th of September, all of my compañeros started singing the Chilean national anthem and dancing the Cueca. After like 10 minutes of this, somebody screamed something I didn’t understand and everyone went running towards school (so confused like usual, I followed and started to scream like the rest of my friends). We kind of just ran around outside of colegio for like 20 minutes until we all decided it was cold and time to return to the house. This was probably my only form of exercise for the entire week.




The next morning, or I guess about four hours after the party ended, I “woke up” and was rushed out of the house to the plaza. In the plaza, I met up with my cueca group, Passion Cuecera, and got dressed to “desfilar”, or basically march around the plaza to represent the club. We all had matching hair, dresses, and makeup. I felt kind of guilty being part of the group representing the Cueca club because I had only gone to one rehearsal (my mamá and I kind of forgot they were every Saturday morning…oops). But regardless, it was a positive first experience desfilando.

Later that day after dancing some Cueca in the streets, my sister, mamá, and I left the plaza and went to the family’s campo to eat. I ate a mixture of empanadas and Arab food, as my papá and his side of the family are of Arab origin. Later that night, my older cousin (who is 19 and I get along really well with) and I hung out and sang with the adults in the party/cookout room. The Campo has a really nice karyoke system and disco vibe, so we felt like real singers.


Walking around the Campo


My mama and I

More meattt

My sister, cousin, and I in the campo

The view of my family's campo

My cousin and I

More campo viewsss

The next day, just my family went to a friends Campo. Unfortunately, there was nobody else relatively close to me in age, so I spent pretty much the entire day chasing little kids and awkwardly hiding in the bathroom for extended periods of times. Every time a new batch of empanadas arrived, I would have to play ninja and carefully sneak out of the house to snatch like ten then quickly run back to my hiding place to avoid being forced to push the little kids around for more hours. Jordan, if you’re reading this, I think I should be awarded Master Ninja (I’m reclaiming the throne).
Friend's Campo

The next day, we hung out around the family Campo. My cousin’s pololo (well, now ex pololo) came to visit her from Concepcion. Although at times, I was “tocando el violin” (third-wheeling), I had a lot of fun hanging out with them. He speaks fluent English, so I had one of my first English conversations in Chile. In the nighttime, all three of us went to las remadas, which is basically a fair during independence week in Yungay. Kids go to las remadas during the day to play games and adults go in the night to dance and drink. I ran into some of my classmates, so I let Amanda and her boyfriend do their own thing while I hung out with my friends.


The next day, I had an official Cueca performance with Passion Cuecera at a Gala in the plaza. I forgot I had this dance, because again, I kind of failed to show up to many of the rehearsals. I wasn’t exactly nervous to stand on stage in front of all of Yungay because I’ve learned through many unexpected experiences to just go with the flow, try my best, and smile. A lot of the times, there is absolutely nothing I can do to hide or avoid discomfort, so I just have to face it and enjoy a unique new experience without dwelling on my mistakes.





On a completely different topic, I have to say, I continue to impress myself with how much I am capable of eating here in Chile. It got to the point where I lost track how many sopapillas and empanadas I ate at any given period of time. I experienced some of the worst stomach pain I’ve ever felt going to bed every night, and it appeared as though I was at least eight months pregnant every second of the week. But I have to say, it was all worth it because I ate RICOOO.

After the independence day, my sister and I weighed ourselves and realized we had both gained a ton of weight since my arrival (for me, 8 kilograms to be exact). I think this might be my fault because I would buy us sweets from the bakery every opportunity I got. Before I could hold a conversation in Spanish, buying Martina sweets was the only way I felt I could say hey I guess I’m your new sister now and I enjoy spending time with you. So long story short, we were put on a diet. However, if you know me at all, you know that I don’t do well with diets. I have enough self-control to fast for maybe two days max (maybe three if I feel that bad about myself), but after that, I get anxious and binge eat everything in the food cabinet. So now I’m just trying to eat more reasonably and not worry about a little weight gain. Eating has been helping me deal with the stress of being an exchange student, so I’m not about to take that away from myself haha.

I guess the last thing that I’ve been up to since independence day is APPLYING TO COLLEGES. I experienced my first wave of anxiety upon the realization that I need to write about eight different essays over the span of 1 ½ months (and this does not include any of the short answer questions). These essays are mainly for scholarships or honors colleges, so they have to be good. Getting all of this done by the due date really scared me because most days, I don’t even have time to run for an hour. If I did find time to sit alone in a quiet room, I found it extremely hard to start thinking deeply and reflecting on my life and my experiences. So, to give myself motivation to get these done, I award myself two king sized Super 8s upon finishing an essay and one king size upon finishing the edits. Super 8 me salva la vidaaaa (I’m not kidding…I’d argue the creator of Super 8 is more intelligent than Joseph Liu, the calc GOD, himself). And now, on top of eating Super 8s for writing purposes, I’ve begun eating them whenever I hang out with the German exchange student (oh yeah, I finally decided to check my insta DMs, and I realized somebody sent me a text two months earlier telling me they were also an exchange student in Yungay…so we met up, talked in ENGLISH (finally), and have been hanging out a lot ever since). The last time we hung out, I think we each ate literally 5 king sized super 8s. So much for my “diet” I suppose…

I am really starting to vibe more and more with my family; my host sister now says “te quiero Allie”, which means I love you, my host brother feels comfortable enough to launch viscous and violent attacks on me both in and out of school, and I have been able to talk to my host mom about literally anything, even if it’s super personal. They all do such an amazing job making me feel like part of the family, and I really couldn’t have been luckier😊

I am still not fluent in Spanish, but I definitely feel I can understand and communicate mostly everything now. The process of learning Spanish, although difficult, has been extremely interesting psychologically. It kind of reminds me of the first time I learned how to program in Java: I have begun to think in a different, more creative way. In coding, I’m usually given some word problem to solve. I then have to think about the functions in Java I can use to create a solution that would satisfy any combination of inputs. It’s interesting because many of these word problems seem simple, but in reality, their solutions are backed up by hundreds of lines of code. It’s fascinating for me to look at simple-seeming things, like a calculator, or even a social media site, and think about the simple seeming function we take for granted is backed up by lines and lines of code (and honestly just how writing commands in this format (or language, I suppose) can create all of these functions.

Wow, totally got off track here but I guess what I’m trying to say is that every time I have an idea in my head that I can’t directly translate to Spanish, I have to quickly think of a different way to say it using words I do know, and this process reminds me of coding. Like coding, its extremely rewarding when I do discover a combination of words to express my ideas jeje.

Also really quickly: about three weeks ago, people frustrated with the many social problems in Chile started to revolt and destroy the metros in Santiago. These attacks were violent, so the President called a state of emergency...now ALL the cities in Chile are demanding change. My town is super tiny and tranquil, but even we had marches every day of last week. Of course the day I was sick at home throwing up was the day my classmates decided to create a wall of chairs blocking the teachers from entering our sala. They didn't even get in trouble apparently (I was SOOO mad I missed it). Rotary unfortunately told me I couldn't participate in the marches, so to still feel apart of the events and support the demand for change, I got to dance in the plaza in protest with both my Cueca group and my Zumba group. It was soooo much fun!!

Although I don't support the violence and destruction, I definitely understand the need for change in Chile. I didn't know this before, but after doing some research on why people were so upset, I found out Chile is number 11 on the list of countries with the greatest wealth gap (worse than the United States even). Along with that, the government gives very little money to programs like education and health care. I kind of had a feeling the government doesn't give much money to schools because there is NEVER toilet paper or soap in the bathrooms (or at least I haven't seen any in the past three months). As students, we also have to bring ALL the materials we need for school, including lab coats for labs and art materials (paper, paint, etc.) for art class. I asked some of my companeros about this and the bathroom situation, and they said the school doesn't get a lot of outside funding:( But at least the education and teachers are good (at least I think; still can't understand everything...). It's an interesting experience for sure. 


Zumba in the night

"Protesting"
We made cookies because I couldn't march


Some other stuff I’ve been up to: I went to Talca with my sister on a bus for her Taekwondo competition, I went to Santiago to visit family (my friend from the exchange lives there and he showed me around a bit), I visited University of Concepcion with my school, I am currently on vacation in Pucon (a tourist town in the south with lots of mountains and volcano villarica), and I have been taking out money from my debit card everyday to pay for a school trip to Bariloche, Argentina with my grade this December (I’m also going on the Rotary trip to Torres del Paine, or Patagonia; this trip will finish four days before Bariloche. I have lotsssss to look forward to jeje).
For now, imma spare you all from more writing, as I’ve almost reached 2,000 words (ahhh).


San Cristobol Hill in Santiago



The view from my room in my aunt's house in Santiago

My sister winning her tae kwon do competition in Talca

The view from the apartment in Pucon


Volcan Villarica

Both my Chilean families in Pucón
Post thermals 

Pirate ship tour!!

Villaricaaaaa


My second mom:))

Mis hermanossss


Concepción with mis compañeros


Chao!


Allie

Monday, September 23, 2019

Aniversario Colegio


Holaaaa

Well, its been a little over a month since I have arrived here in Yungay! Que emocionnnn haha (oops I mean jajaja). This past week, I didn’t have school Monday and Tuesday because it was the end of the semester so guess what I started? COLLEGE APPS!! Kinda forgot about those… 

The rest of the week I had to go to school but didn’t have classes because Wednesday was the anniversary of my school. To celebrate the anniversary, all the students were sorted into alliances depending on their grade, so my grade (tresero medio) was in the alianza roja (red alliance) with my little brother’s grade and another grade in basico. During the school days, members of each alliance had to participate in various activities. If they were to win that activity, points would be awarded to the alliance. My favorite activity to watch was a race that included cracking an egg and throwing flour on your head, sliding down a slip-and-slide, and fishing for keys in a pool of sea creatures and vinegar to help the queen of the course escape (oh yeah…each course has an elected queen and king. My sister is the queen of her course and my future little brother is the king of his course). Another funny activity was a food competition where participants had to pass fruits and vegetables down the line only using their mouths. The order was boy girl boy girl, and some of the fruits were very small haha. Other activities included running competitions, soccer games, basketball games, dances, a march in the plaza of Yungay, a cake eating competition, dance off, rap off, and others I’m probably forgetting. Some of these activities, like the rap off, dance off, other dances, and march, took place in the nighttime in the plaza. I participated in the running competitions, soccer/basketball games, dances, rap off, and the pass the food down the line. Even though I totally sucked at everything, I had a ton of fun not sitting in lenguaje wanting to die!
My alliance marching through the streets of Yungay chanting something I didn't understand for the anniversary

One of the MANY dances some girls from my course performed


Cake eating contest

One of my two dances...I think the song was called Make It Jiggle?

My little brother (second family) and his queen during the vintage car competition 
My sister (the QUEEN) and I


Backstreet Boys and Spice Girls dance group

Recycled dress competition


Oops...I helped my sister's alliance with their video (sorry alianza roja;)

I had pink hair for the entire week; I thought it was temporary. I guess I'm not as good in Spanish as I thought...

Everyone was really surprised when I told them we don’t celebrate anniversaries in West Chester. I guess this week of fun is universal here in Chile…que suerteee. The closest we have to anniversario is homecoming week, but during homecoming week, the highlight is wearing pjs to school (which by the way, isn’t exactly special because you can basically wear pjs whenever you feel like it without an excuse).

On Friday, I had my first Gala, which I can’t really compare to anything because it was different than both prom and homecoming. People came in pretty much any fancy dress they wanted (long like prom, short like homecoming, or jumpsuit), and all the medio courses could attend. I felt kind of awkward at first because everyone was dancing and screaming the lyrics of Spanish songs, and I still don’t know many Spanish songs nor the lyrics. After about an hour, a friend of my host brother (in Switzerland) asked me to dance, so I left my group of companeras to join a “dancing line” of companeros in the grade above mine. I really don’t know how to dance for the life of me, and my dance partner is the best in his course, so it was kind of embarrassing for me.
Girls from my grade and I

My classmates from the grade above me

My dance partner haha

There is not one Chilean I have met that can’t dance!! And it isn’t just like moving the hips dancing, it’s like Dirty Dancing (the movie) dancing. I really can’t compare nor imagine a future where I can compare:/ I guess Rotary put me in dance classes every Saturday for a reason…

After the Gala, there was an afterparty at my classmate’s house; a lot of people from my course went. At first, I felt kind of awkward because everyone was just talking, but about thirty minutes in when my classmates blasted reggaeton, I relaxed a bit and started to dance. I have to say, fiestas here in Chile are SO MUCH better than parties in West Chester. Dancing until like four in the morning is so much better than sitting awkwardly in someone’s basement wishing you were at home playing super smash bros😉

This week was the highlight of my month in Chile, without a doubt. There were many moments where I was just walking through Yungay looking like an idiot just smiling. The high I get from living in a world of new culture, experiences, people, and language is unreal; there is always something new to see or do. 
More of Yungay

Hail storm!

After orientation, I was kind of jealous that all of the other exchange students were sent to the same town and school. However, being the only exchange student right now in Colegio Cholguan basically makes me famous(😉), meaning it was super easy to get attention and not feel lonely. As self-centered as it sounds, I really like being the new kid and having people interested in talking to me.

However, at the same time, I feel extremely out of place at times. Not knowing the language nor the culture of Yungay makes me an outsider. As an outsider, my job is to observe and try to wrap my head around this new way of life. My personality doesn’t exactly parallel that of an observer, so this past month has been slightly difficult for me emotionally. At this point, it’s not even that I have something to say and I don’t know how to say it in Spanish; it’s more like my brain is completely starved of any phrase in Spanish or English and my stomach is screaming because for some reason I am always starving (yes, I'm a stress eater and yes, I've already gained over 6 kg). The most interesting thing about this extreme low feeling is that it doesn’t last for more than 10 minutes (or at least I don’t let it). I play this fun game with myself where I imagine an alien has landed and is watching me experience whatever irrational emotion I’m experiencing and I think about how ridiculous I must look (I think I wrote an essay about this in 6th grade…). I’ve been doing this since I was maybe five, and it has helped me not take life too seriously. Life’s short, so why waste it on a bunch of brain chemicals😉

Well, I’ve gone quite a bit over 1,000 words so I guess it’s time to wrap things up (actually, I could keep writing but I’m about to go to eat ice cream and I have my priorities).

JEJEJE CHAO Y FELIZ DIA DE INDEPENDENCIA😊

Allie